33-year-old male left post sign "fast food love": meet to get a 3-month license

33-year-old male left post sign "fast food love": meet to get a 3-month license

When the two sides met for the first time, they set a lifelong event; within three months, they received a marriage certificate.... A few days ago, a marriage invitation was popular because of its peculiar requirements. Followed by, is the criticism of netizens saying: This is not the game feelings? Experts believe that this reflects the impetuousness of society that affects young people’s love and marriage.

Remaining men's marriage: Meet and get engaged, and get a license at the end of the year

A few days ago, a 33-year-old man claimed to have issued a marriage invitation and asked for a “four-step walk” to get a permit to marry at the end of December: First, about the time the family met each other; Second, to the woman's family to mention the pro; Third, the woman went to the man's house to visit Fourth, the marriage certificate. The posters called it "fast food love."

He also asked the parents to bring their parents for the first time and then they would not be allowed to go back. This means that the first meeting will be engaged. He also explained that if a person meets true love after marriage, he or she can pursue it. However, he or she needs to leave the company to clean up, and regardless of who is leaving the house, the child is the man.

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The reporter contacted the posting person Mr. Wang. Mr. Wang is taller than 1.75 meters and looks good. According to him, his family conditions and work are also very good.

Why are you dying to get married? He said that because Grandpa is sick, she is anxious to see her grandparents. But he does not even have a girlfriend. The family always urges him to marry, and he does not want to delay himself.

Why did you first ask for an engagement? He said that because at the end of last year, he had a romantic relationship with a girl, thinking that the marriage was a must-have. He did not expect that after 4 months, the girl left him: “You are not the type I like. I just want to Try another appetite," said Mr. Wang, which hurt him. So he is afraid of being married and repenting. This is not love, it is love after marriage.

Netizen Criticism: Sacrificing Girls to Be Happy

Mr. Wang’s net post attracted more than 2,000 clicks within three days, and hundreds of people posted. The vast majority of users are critical of him.

The netizen Mr. Cao said that it is possible to set a timetable and say when to marry and when to marry. Besides, now, like the ancients, we can set a lifetime for the first time. In addition, after the marriage, the two met with true love can go bravely pursued, which further reflects his extreme irresponsibility to marriage. In general, he is to sacrifice the happiness of the girl to complete his filial piety.

Many netizens follow the "crusade", saying that Mr. Wang is selfish and unreliable. I am afraid that no girl will marry him. Mr. Wang said that since his posting, only a girl who had just lost her love had contacted him, but he was rejected because he did not meet his height.

Expert analysis: "Fast food love" may not reach quickly

According to Gong Haiyan, founder and sensibility expert of Century Jiayuan, Mr. Wang’s post may not be a “game” and he is very serious. This reflects the widespread sense of anxiety about marriage and love among the remaining men and the remaining women. However, with so many demands for blame, it's no wonder that few people apply for it. Perhaps it's because he is too strong to give a girl a sense of security before he loses in marriage and love. I hope he can adjust his attitude, sincerely treat his love, and wait until both men and women decide to marry later.

Professor Feng Guilin, a sociology researcher at the Provincial Academy of Social Sciences, believes that Xiaowang’s “fast food love” reflects the impetuousness of the entire society to people’s love and marriage. A solid emotional foundation is the premise of a happy marriage. Love is a process of natural development. It is unreasonable to predetermine the time according to the subjective will. It may be that "wanting speed is not achieved."

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